A few weeks ago, I noticed that when I asked Hee not to do....., he would stop doing that and said "Who cares". I told him that they were not very nice words, and he never said that ever since.
Last week, when I asked him not to do something, I heard him mumble to himself "誰管”。 I wasn't very sure about what I heard, and I didn't believe that he had the ability to translate the word "care", so I asked him what he said. He said "nothing", so I was sure that he said that. Then, I asked him how to translate "who cares", he told me "誰管", and he admitted that he was saying "誰管" few minutes ago. I told him that bad English words are still bad even when they were translated into other languages, so I asked him not to speak "誰管" in the future, and I never heard of that ever since.
Yesterday, he told me that at school, he heard a kids saying "who cares", and he went to tell the teacher. Oops, in our childhood, we didn't like this kind of 打小報告的狗腿同學; however, I hoped that he can feel free to go to the teacher when there's a need (for example, being bullied), and I didn't think that he's old enough to draw a line of when he needs to go to the teacher, so I didn't say anything to him about 打小報告.
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I told Cheryl many improper words taht she should not say. Everytime when she heard people say those words, she always told me people said bad words.
小孩上學後，就會跟同學學bad words，當父母的實在要隨時注意小孩的言行舉止。呼呼也常講who cares，已經被我說了很多次。
最近愛愛信信說的讓我聽不順耳的話就是稱他們不愛吃的東西:yucky! 我告訴他們食物是上帝造的, 有些也是媽媽辛苦做的, 不喜歡吃可以說不喜歡吃, 但不能說yucky. 警告過後還說, 我就說再說要管教, 現在就沒聽他們說了.
小孩上學後真的會學到很多不好的話，像小卡班上有一個小男孩常常說些非常不好的話（比誰管還嚴重多了的，連我都聽不下去），老師跟家長都警告他很多次，可是習慣成自然，很難改。連帶的一些常跟他玩得小男生也開始說。還好小卡很少跟這個小男生玩，因為她知道這個小男生是小霸王，常常動手打人。其實這也是我們打算停上這所學校的原因之一。
不過說到底，還是父母要教。
When the kids are young, it's easier for us to correct their misbehavior since they are around most of the time, but after they get older and spend more time at school, it's hard for parents to pay attention to what they say or do.
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